Here's the thing..

Ok. I've been in that state, you know, the state that you feel like you can't live without him. And you feel like there's no one else who would want to be with you if you let him go.

Yes I know. It feels real. The feeling is real. Love is a big risk. It's like giving your heart away to someone who may or may not love you as much as you love him. You're lucky if he loves you back. You're even luckier if he loves you even more. But what if you're not lucky? What if he doesn't love you. Or he thinks that he loves you but he's not that in to you? How do you deal with that?

It's sad. Some people become depressed. They go out, have a drink, try to do all sorts of crazy stuff. Because they have an excuse. They are depressed. Some people take it calmly. They just move on. Though their hearts may be broken, but they manage to heal by themselves.

I used to believe in the saying, "If you love someone, let him go. If he's comes back, he's yours. If he doesn't, he never was yours to begin with". Yes. I used to believe in this. But how fair is it? If you let him go, he will feel unwanted. He will feel hurt. Is it fair to hurt the one that you love? And if he comes back, what if he does the same to you? One day, he suddenly decides to let you go? How would you feel? You'll feel unwanted. You'll feel hurt. And will you go running back to him? All the pain and misery that both of you felt, is it worth it?

I am a believer. I believe that love will find its way. And sometimes love will find its way out. If someone stopped loving you, that simply means, love is trying to find its way out. It gives reasons not to see you, not to talk to you. It can change someone drastically.

I believe that if you love someone, I mean truly love someone, hold on to him/her. And never let go. Because when someone gives you his/her heart, it means he/she trusts you. He regards you as his half. And if you let go, it would mean that you're rejecting his/her heart. And the heart will be broken. Once a heart is broken, it takes time to put it back into pieces.

If you love someone, don't let him go. Hold on to him. And if he loves you as much as you love him, he'll never let you go. That's love...